Why It’s Not Crazy for Working Professionals to Quit Their Jobs and Travel the World

The American Dream

  1. Graduate high school
  2. Go to college
  3. Start your career
  4. Get married
  5. Buy a house
  6. Have children
  7. Watch them grow up
  8. Send them off to college, then to start their careers
  9. Become a grandparent
  10. Retire, travel, and enjoy life

It’s the American dream, right?

Anyone who has grown up in the United States usually has some variation of what I like to call the “10-point-plan.” It has been ingrained in our brains since youth. The majority of Americans just take this life path as if we have no other choice.

As a 28-year-old married professional at the beginning of my career, that’s the direction I was heading, along with my wife. Then one evening after work, we took our dog for a walk.

“So, I was reading a blog about this couple who took a year-long trip around the world,” my wife innocently blurted out as we were strolling around our suburban neighborhood.

With that simple statement, our “10-point-plan” was about to be turned upside-down.

I have to admit that even though I loved to travel, the thought of traveling internationally for a long period of time never crossed my mind. Despite already being behind most of our friends, I still wasn’t ready to purchase a house and start popping out kids, but I also wasn’t ready to completely blow up the “10-point-plan.” My initial reaction to my wife’s question wasn’t exactly positive, and it was the reaction that most others had once we eventually decided to take the trip and told them what our plans were.

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Most Americans think it’s absolutely insane to quit their jobs to travel for a year. If it’s something you’re thinking about doing, you will probably run into many questions from friends and family who don’t think it’s possible. After a while, we found that the same three concerns kept popping up.

Here’s how you can put yourself, your family, and your friends at ease.

Misconception 1: No one else travels long-term until they’re retired, so why should I?

young traveler

Long-term travel before retirement is a totally foreign concept because very few people in the U.S. actually do it. It’s just not part of our culture.

It’s not uncommon for Australians to take a year to travel after college, or, in some cases, after high school. Many Europeans do the same, or they may work for a few years to save up some money and go explore before they have children. A large number of Israelis take their military pay after their obligations are met and take off to see what the rest of the world has to offer. But Americans just don’t put international travel at the top of their priority lists.

If you do decide to buck the trend and do what many others think impossible, it will intrigue most everyone you encounter. You become a quasi-celebrity overnight. Once people find out about what you’re going to do, they will be curious and want to chat with you about it. Once you return home from the trip, the same thing happens. Everyone is excited to see you and hear all about your exotic adventures abroad. You are suddenly known as “the world travelers.”

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And let’s be honest, who doesn’t like attention and feeling famous?

In addition to this newfound fame, it is much easier to get off the beaten path and make your money last by traveling on a budget when you are younger. Not many retirees have the strength or stamina to endure 24+ hour bus rides through the mountains of Bolivia. Activities like hiking the Andes and Himalayas, or skydiving over New Zealand, are obviously possible when you reach retirement age, but they’re also tougher when you reach a certain age.

Of course there are exceptions to every rule, but I can’t count how many people in my parents’ generation lamented that they were jealous of what we were doing and wished they would have thought of doing something similar when they were our age.

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Misconception 2: Taking a year off to travel will ruin my career.


The economy, while better than 3-4 years ago, is still not great, and taking time off to travel impacting your career is a concern to most people. No one wants to spend a massive chunk of their savings traveling only to come home to a jobless market. But before just assuming that getting a job when you come home will be impossible, or that the gap in your resume will cause it to be thrown in the recycling bin immediately, look at it from a more optimistic perspective.

Because so few people in this country travel the world, it becomes a point of interest when someone finds out what you did. Turn that one-year employment gap in your resume into a positive by mentioning what it did for you as a person and how that makes you valuable to a prospective employer. Add your international travel experience into cover letters just as you would job experiences. Talk about your time volunteering in Laos or learning Spanish in Guatemala.

Isn’t standing out what we were always taught was important when writing resumes and cover letters? What better way to stand out than to have experiences and attributes that very few other people have?

Turn that one-year employment gap in your resume into a positive by mentioning what it did for you as a person and how that makes you valuable to a prospective employer.

Leaving your job and traveling long-term will also afford you the opportunity to look into a new career. Even if you do love your job at home, you probably don’t love it that much, or else you wouldn’t have quit it to travel. So use this opportunity to try something new.

Put the time into something you’ve never had the chance to do before. Write, sew, draw, make music, study photography, or learn a new language. Who knows, you may tap into a talent you never knew you had, and that could possibly translate into a new opportunity once you return home.

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Misconception 3: You’re going where? Aren’t you afraid of being kidnapped, killed, drugged, robbed, etc.?


Fellow employee: “So I heard you’re going to travel abroad for a year. That’s awesome. Where in Europe are you going?”

Traveler: “Uh, actually, we’re not going to Europe.”

Employee (looking bewildered): “No Europe? Where are you going then?”

Traveler: “Well, our plan is to start in South America, then maybe some time in New Zealand, then Southeast Asia, and India.”

Employee (with a questionable expression): “Well, I hope you take a gun, and if not, it’s been nice knowing you.”

I can’t count how many times I had some variation of the above conversation with someone, whether it was a friend, a family member, or someone I worked with. Even after we returned, one of the first questions people asked was, “Were you ever scared? What place made you feel the most uneasy?”

I’m not going to lie and say that I didn’t have safety concerns when first trying to figure out where we would be traveling. The media in this country doesn’t exactly make it desirable to head to a place like Colombia (which, coincidentally, was my favorite country on our trip). So it wasn’t a huge shock to hear concerns like these.

If I’m going on a trip somewhere, wouldn’t it make more sense to talk to someone who has actually been there?

The problem with listening to all the fear-mongering; however, is that most people who were trying to scare us into not going to these places had never been there themselves. If I’m going on a trip somewhere, wouldn’t it make more sense to talk to someone who has actually been there?

It seems so logical, but it’s difficult not to listen to the vocal majority, many of whom have no idea what they’re talking about. Once we started researching on message boards and getting in touch with real people who had actually been to places in South America, Southeast Asia, and India, our concerns became a non-issue.

Violence happens everywhere. We all know this. Literally 2 days after our departure from our nice, safe, Midwestern city, our families got a sad reminder of that point. We received an email from a family member telling us about a bomb that had gone off in the office building garage next-door to where my wife worked before we left. Luckily no one was killed or seriously injured, but while so many of our loved ones were concerned about our safety in Peru, a bomb was detonated in an affluent neighborhood known for minimal crime. How’s that for irony?

>> Learn more about which countries can be statistically dangerous, and which ones you should visit anyways

Redefining “Crazy”

You can ask yourself all the logical questions in the world to try to prepare for something like this. Going against societal norms, affects on career, and safety of traveling in developing countries were questions we researched ad nauseam.

Any big lifestyle change, though, whether it’s heading off to college, buying a house, having a child, or taking off on a trip around the world, brings big risks and unknowns along with it.

 We felt like we would never forgive ourselves if we didn’t do it. That was much riskier than any other possible ramifications.

The problem with our lifestyle change was that it was so uncommon to our families, friends, and culture in general.

Even though concerns abounded about how this would affect our futures, the main thing we kept coming back to was the feeling of regret. If we decided not to go, would we regret it ten, twenty, or thirty years from now? Ultimately, that’s what it came down to. Regret. We felt like we would never forgive ourselves if we didn’t do it. That was much riskier than any other possible ramifications.

To us, not quitting our jobs and traveling the world was crazy. Doing it seemed logical.

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  • Neelakshi Bali said at 2014-03-26T03:39:27+0000: woww.. so inspiring !! I wish I were saying I am quitting my job tomorrow n going on a long trip.. But I still need a couple of years to save for my long travels.. I have a longgggggg list of countries I wanna visit.. <graduating from college next month>.. Here's my new blog about quitting and running away to smwhere new - windyhappiness.blogspot.com ..
  • Melanie Adair said at 2013-10-08T03:05:45+0000: I didnt quit my job, I was lucky enough to be granted a 14 month leave of absence (so if you are worried about quitting your job, you always have that option. All you have to do is ask!). 10 months in and not regretting it!
  • Louise Allnutt said at 2013-09-23T18:50:44+0000: Excellent, we live in New Zealand and we're off on a 4 month adventure in 9 days time, can't wait. We've taken our kids out of school for a term as we believe in the saying "don't let schooling get in the way of your child's education".
  • What Boundaries? Live Your Dream! said at 2013-09-25T14:16:58+0000: Nice article on why is it NOT crazy to take a chance on long term travel.. We made a similar decision in 2007 and have never looked back with anything more than - "Why didn't we do this sooner?"
  • Tracey Newby said at 2013-09-25T14:26:34+0000: We are 9 months into a year long travel www.facebook.com/oldiesgapyear as an older couple, but not retired we are seen as a novelty case both at home and on the road....I am just sorry that at this point in time we can only do it for a year, I just want it to go on and on
  • Jill Delgado said at 2013-09-24T04:15:27+0000: Quitting my job and traveling solo in Europe for six months (just returned stateside in June), was the single greatest gift I could have ever given myself. Everything said in your article is true. I had never even held a passport until right before I left. After getting rid of most of my stuff, my remaining worldly possessions reside within a 5x10 ft. storage unit. When people ask if I was afraid of this and afraid of that, I just answer not as much as I was afraid of regret. I hope to do it again some day! A great quote that I love is: "the world is a book and those that do not travel read only one page". - St. Augustine.
  • Pinch Me Living said at 2013-09-23T19:44:42+0000: Great article, thanks Adam! We're firm believers in creating our own stage by stage life adventure, going with what feels right, feels inspiring and works for us, versus following expectations, norms and fears. At times that's included travel and living in different places, quitting our jobs, and starting our own businesses. The path is definitely not always easy, but then neither is living a 10 point plan when you feel suffocated from not living your heart's desire! Great reading your messages in this article, really enjoyed it! B & Azz
  • Ericka Hamburg said at 2013-09-23T17:12:31+0000: i have no fear of traveling around the world--the itinerary grows and morphs constantly. since im not a trust-funder and have only modest savings, the fear is age-related employment discrimination upon return.
  • This Way To Paradise said at 2013-09-23T14:20:08+0000: I just sold everything I own to slow travel through the world!! Yeah, it's so sad how we are indoctrinated with the "American Dream"...took me a while to realize it's not my dream!
  • Don't worry Just travel said at 2013-05-20T22:34:54+0000: Great article. I really enjoyed reading. In June 2010 I quit my secure job as risk manager in a bank to travel through Asia for a year. I never returned!
  • Tami Le said at 2013-04-02T11:57:11+0000: Great article
  • Jeremy Parker said at 2013-03-22T03:33:12+0000: As I sit in my freezing cold apartment trying to plan a way to stretch four days worth of food to a week I only wish I was half as charmed. A college degree doesn't get you far when you were born in Maine to poor parents.
  • The Drifter Journals said at 2012-12-18T04:59:18+0000: Articles like this make jobs like mine WAY more enjoyable! Thanks for the keeper, I'm spreading the love...
  • Spaceship Dmitri said at 2012-10-08T02:39:02+0000: I like that people think it is crazy! I am lucky. In the first 2 years of my corporate office "career" thingy I went for a month to Peru. The whole office was intrigued, and did think this was kind of crazy. But then I came back safely with that SMILE on my face. And a plan to go for another trip this time for 4 months while retaining my job and salary the whole time. Lucky, yes; God willing. But people don't REALLY seriously think this is crazy. It is like people who never exercise and you invite them for a 4 hour bike ride. It seems crazy to them. They don't even know how to ride a bike. But actually it's as normal and extraordinary as everything else in the cosmos!
  • Spaceship Dmitri said at 2012-10-08T02:41:49+0000: The American Dream! With or without antidepressants?
  • Paul Elverstone said at 2012-10-01T21:55:46+0000: A lot of this resonates. The 10 point plan I figure is all about this safety bubble - this 'thing' that we must do to keep in line with what is accepted in society. It's been handed down until we follow it ad verbatim and without even questioning it. It takes a fair bit of effort to break away from such an institution such as this but it can be done. Just need a new set of priorities - a new plan (and it doesn't have to be ten steps either). In the meantime, pity the sheep that seek shepherds...
  • Discount Travel Blogger said at 2012-10-02T11:34:27+0000: People that haven't done it yet just don't get it, but congratulations to you, you know better than them! :)
  • Ryan O'Loughlin said at 2012-05-11T01:36:39+0000: Awesome! Another thing you can do is combine traveling with a job. There are tons of opportunities. I am writing this post from Seoul, where I teach English. I get like 8 weeks a year off to travel, while still earning an income to support myself!
  • Jennifer Miller said at 2012-05-11T01:12:05+0000: I LOVE IT! Great article Adam! We're in our fifth year of full time travel with our kids and we wouldn't have it any other way...AND... the careers are thriving, making better money than we did on the 10 point plan! :)
  • Gary Chow said at 2012-05-10T23:39:41+0000: Yes, many Australians do travel long term and often straight after Uni or even high school. But 'travel' is often applied loosely to what transpires. Many do a quick whirlwind tour of the big centres of Europe then head to London where they take a job. That part may take a couple of months. The rest of their time away, which would typically be 18 months -2 years, is actually spent in one place, usually London.
  • Kati Ketz said at 2012-01-21T03:14:10+0000: So what exactly do you DO with your dog while you're traveling for a year? This sounds stupid, but that's the main thing holding me back (yes, I love him like he is my son).
  • Travel Junkies: A Family Goes RTW said at 2011-09-09T23:03:52+0000: We are getting ready to sell our house, quit our jobs, and go travel for a couple of years starting this next year. Many people think it is a great idea, while others think we are nuts because we are taking our 7 year old daughter. We feel it will be the best thing for her and us as a family.http://travel-junkies.com
  • Jeremy R. Last said at 2011-09-08T16:36:29+0000: I quit my job twice to travel, it didn't ruin my career but it certainly became very difficult to recover, both times, but I did and it was worth it! I hope to quit for a third time but I'm sure when yet ;).
  • Tracy Antonioli said at 2011-12-06T17:04:06+0000: I just sent this to my husband. maybe I should send it to my mother, too? ;-) thanks!
  • Elizabeth Chong said at 2011-09-21T12:47:33+0000: Dare I take the challenge?

Older comments on Why It’s Not Crazy for Working Professionals to Quit Their Jobs and Travel the World

Carole Harmon
11 March 2010

ANOTHER INTERESTING ARTICLE
CAROLE

Doris Gallan
11 March 2010

My husband and I had similar experiences when we left our corporate jobs for a two-year RTW. The comments may have been different because of our ages (me 44, he 49) but they were just as ridiculous. We were asked ‘what will you do for doctors?’, ‘what about saving for your retirement?’, and ‘you’re giving up your jobs and your house???’

Best thing we ever did in our lives and we are about to celebrate 4 years on the road with no regrets!

Doris (www.dorisgallan.com)

Michaela Potter
11 March 2010

I hope your story can help inspire more “crazy” behavior in Americans! Hopefully there will be a day when “career break” and “sabbatical” are as common in our culture as they are in other parts of the world.

LIAM61
11 March 2010

Rock on Doris!!!!! started travelling when I was 17 did not have anything to sell back then in Ireland just a great desire and natural curiosty to see the world.The more junk you have the harder it becomes.The poeple you meet along your journey are what count and the journey itself.Ride on!!!!!!!!!!

Dee Andrews
12 March 2010

My husband and I jumped off the 10-point plan as well, but we did have the mortgage, two kids and a dog. We moved our family to Spain for a year to travel and experience other cultures. Check us out at http://www.travelandtravails.com.

I too can’t wait for the day when more Americans realize work is not life.

RachelDenning
16 March 2010

Awesome article! More people should be crazy, even with kids. My husband and I took the leap when our kids were 4, 3, 2 and 2 months and drove the Pan American Highway then lived in Costa Rica for a year.

Now we’re living in India and expecting our 5th. We love our life, despite the label others give to us of being ‘crazy.’

http://www.discovershareinspire.com

sunshine99
18 March 2010

YES! YES! and YES!

When I left my teaching job (yes I had tenure) to travel around the world in 1996…everyone thought I was nuts.

Security of job…being alone…safety…etc…were all concerns they all had. I knew no-one personally that had done this…but I knew it would work…despite the struggle to find a RTW ticket…after several hang ups I got a guy from Council Travel…now STA that helped organise the tickets…

I too Started in South America and never felt more alive….I was totally shocked upon arriving in Australia that there was this whole backpacker circuit…and 18 year olds traveling round the world…Gap years etc. were unheard of at that time….at least in America….

I still haven’t returned…living in Germany…kind of a half way base that I can travel from..;)

Thanks for sharing..

sissyt
18 March 2010

Awesome article! Jumped off after step 5 and certainly dont regret it. Traveled for 2 years, now back at work and bought house #2. Can still start back up right where we left or decide to heck with it all and go back to traveling permanently.

Adam Groffman
28 March 2010

Rules to live by!

dhughey
05 April 2010

After 10 years as a lawyer, I quit my job, sold my house, got married and left for a one-year honeymoon around the world – http://www.oneyearonearth.com. Obviously, most people thought my wife (who is a lawyer, too) and I were nuts for dropping out of the 10-point plan, but it was the best thing we’ve ever done! Keep travelin’!

Caroline Valente
05 April 2010

i’m in the “are you crazy?” listening time, and it’s awesome to hear that it happens always the same.

deuce
05 April 2010

Enjoyed the article. I’m getting the same kind of reactions you described, and I’m only going away for 3 months.

lyndyb
28 June 2010

Great read!!! I am a single business owner (until september,that is) and am leaving on an open-ended travel adventure starting in the middle east. Only having a rough plan,people think I am crazy or wish they were doing it themselves. Awesome tips…gets me more excited to leave!!

allgrowedup07
19 July 2010

this article, and the comments were inspiring. i am 25 and recently married. i just got my masters degree and am on the bottom of the pole in my career. we live in NJ and feel like we are wasting our youth in cubicles. but how do we travel with car payments, credit card debt, and student loans? how did you all do this? i am in desperate need of a “10 point” plan shaking

Driftingfocus
21 October 2010

I have to say, as someone who grew up with two self-employed artists for parents, and surrounded by other folks who didn’t live by the “10 point plan”, I have always been a little mind-boggled by how anyone could look at such a plan and think that it sounds like a good idea. Humans are wired toward instant gratification, and yet the 10 point plan is all about delayed gratification and happiness. I don’t get it, and I doubt I ever will.

WT
03 March 2011

Coolio! Crazy like a fox, eh? ;) The people who thought we were NUTS when we sold our beloved home in 2005 to travel the world non-stop as a family, now think we’re brilliant! ;)

We’ve been to 39 countries on 5 continents traveling non-stop as a family and living large on 23 dollars a day per person, adding to our nest egg as we roam. From Bora Bora to Barcelona from Sydney to Stockholm from Morocco to Montengro from the Sahara to Singapore and more…we have had a ball living this dream.

As monolinguals raising a fluent-as-a-native trilingual/triliterate ( Mandarin/ Spanish/English) who speaks some of many languages we’ve found this to be the best possible education for a 21st century global citizen!

YES this CAN be done..even as a family.. today because tech allows us to work and school ANY where, stay close with family and friends for free while immersing in other cultures and slow travel is MUCH cheaper than living at home.

I wrote a classic article about how to do long term travel that you might like too!

http://soultravelers3.com/2008/06/how-to-do-exten.html